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At the end of your first date, you will always bump into the question of kissing. You may want to kiss or you can be reluctant about it, there is no way you can avoid dealing with it. There are simple kisses that don’t mean very much and serious kisses that will be really engaging emotionally. Kissing is a delicate issue because it is an intimate thing to do. It shows trust, as your eyes are closed and your neck exposed. Kissing can stir up your feelings as well.

Because it is such an intimate act, some people see kissing as a prelude to sex, and will kiss only if they are prepared to go all the way. Others think kissing is an activity in itself, having no connection to sex. They can kiss for hours, and then say goodnight. So it is really important to know the difference between a quick kiss that has no deeper meaning and a serious kiss.

You must know you are not obligated to kiss when saying goodbye. You can give your date a hug, which is similar to a kiss in lot of ways. A hug can have a quite wide range of different meanings, from friendship to passion, depending on duration ant the position of your bodies. Or you have the option of shaking hands: with this gesture your message is that you don’t want to move too fast. Handshaking can be misinterpreted, as your date can think you are too cold.

Experts say there are at least 25 kinds of kisses, with 25 different meanings. You don’t have to know all of them: your date doesn’t know either, so you don’t have necessarily do things by the book. There is no doubt you will figure out what to do. However, you will have to make the difference between a quick kiss and a serious kiss.

If you meet someone and kiss him/her on the cheek, that’s a quick kiss. Quick kisses are quite common in some countries. If your date gives you a quick kiss at the end of the night it means he/she doesn’t want to get involved in anything serious. Therefore you should say goodbye and go home. If your date gives you a kiss on your cheek when you meet, be prepared for more to come.

There is no way you can’t see a serious kiss is coming. You will notice the sizzling air between you two, and the body language of your partner will be quite easy to read. A serious kiss is always sensual, but doesn’t necessarily mean sex is the next step. However, because serious kissing is a full-body experience, you can be sure that sex is not very far away.

Men see serious kissing as the prelude to sex. However, a lot of women don’t think about serious kissing that it has to end in the bed. They can kiss for quite long time, and then just go away, leaving the disappointed men behind.

If you want to know if there is a kiss coming or not, there are certain signs to look for: you are facing each other, with no intention to suddenly end the date, looking into each other’s eyes.

But remember, kissing is not mandatory. There are other ways to say goodbye, like shaking hands, hugging or even waving at each other.

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