Reasons Why Boys Cheat
Women regardless of age have been asking the same thing: why men cheat? This age-old question still has puzzled the female population, or at least those who had experienced it first-hand.
We have collected the reasons why:
They are is something missing Men and women are similar, their emotions need to be attended even though you think they don’t.
They seek constant reminder that you women love and appreciate them. Without reassurance, they start to feel unworthy and drift to emotional isolation.What happens is, they seek outside the attention that they don’t get from home.
It’s in the blood
Animal shows on tv is enough to give you a clear picture on the reason why men act the way they do. Male’s main task is to protect his territory and spread his seed in order to ensure the continuity of his bloodline. Meaning, it is a trend that men knocks on someone else’s doors just to continue his genes. However, this does not mean that men are predestined to cheat; despite his biology, men need to fight it-especially after a night of beer and a couple of shots of Jack.
As a precursor to a dying relationship There are men who don’t have the guts to say “it is over” to their partner. Perhaps because they don’t want to make the first move or don’t want to be labelled as jerk who ended something that is good. Instead, they play around to get their woman leave him for good.
As a reassurance that he is still attractive Once married a man (or a married woman) is expected not to flirt around other for the rest of his life, or at least until he is legally separated.However, men has the tendency to get bored and look somewhere else to satisfy his physical and emotionsl needs. Think of your relationship as a playlist of songs that plays over and over again; it will be just a matter of time when you get tired of listening to it. Men have to update thier playlist regularly, but if they can’t get it from their partner, they will look somewhere else.
To get attention Men do not cheat simply because they want to have sex with another woman.
Sure, they have sex with other woman/women but that’s not the sole reason why men cheat cheat. Just like women, men need contant attention, but if their wife could not give it to them, they seek another who can give them what they need. Seeing you naked will make him stay for a while, but it is important to understand that to make him feel worthy, you don’t just appreciate him when he is shovelling the snow off your driveway.
Ivan Tart is a writer and marriage counselor. He has been very active in solving marraige problems and providing women answers to different questions regarding relationship including, why men cheat.
