Singles Matchmaking

It’s not uncommon or unusual for men to look around them and think that jerks have all of the luck when it comes to dating beautiful women. It’s very rare to see a drop-dead gorgeous lady with a completely stand-up guy, so you have reason to be a little green with envy.

Despite what it may look like, being a jerk does not equate to instant success with women. You will enjoy much more success by focusing on certain behaviors that you are almost certainly exhibiting that are actually repelling women. You see, trying to hard to be a “nice guy” usually just causes women to think that you are timid and uninteresting.

Unfortunately, nice guys who play by the rules and do everything as society tells them to do it aren’t very interesting. Think about it; would you want to hang out with a guy that seemed like he was straight off the set of Leave it to Beaver? No!

So why would you expect a woman to be any different? No matter what your mother taught you, you cannot bore a woman into liking you. I know that’s not what you’re trying to do, but the sooner you realize how you’re coming across to women, the better.

To succeed with women by being a jerk is to realize that crossing the line isn’t actually a bad thing. It’s not actually being a jerk. To a woman, a man who tip toes around her and worships her is not a nice guy. He is just a wimp.

Sucking up to women is just completely ineffective, and there is actually no advantage to exhibiting this sort of behavior. Be yourself and tell women what is really on your mind, even if you’re going to be ruffling her feathers by doing so! She will be relieved that you are a real guy and not just another suck up.

Do I encourage being a blatant jerk to get with women? No, not really. What I do encourage is that you free your mind. Society and our mothers have taught us all to mislabel things. You are not a jerk for being interesting. And you are not a nice guy for being a boring square.

Don’t over complicate this! Forget the archaic labels of “jerk” or “nice guy”; there is only “interesting” and “boring.” Which one are you going to be?

Here are a couple of required reading materials if you really want to start developing a personality that is attractive to women: Art of Approaching Review, Magic Bullets Review.